For years, I struggled with being overweight. I eventually lost 40 pounds but the journey wasn’t easy. I had to find my way through a maze of confusing and often contradictory information. I tried and failed many times along the way. Above all, I didn’t succeed until I learned how to manage myself.
I had many bad habits: I drank too much caffeine, I smoked, I was a little too fond of wine on weekends, I didn’t get enough sleep, and I leaned on processed sugary snacks for energy. My reliance on chocolate, cheese, ice-cream and bread had made me heavy, sick, low in energy and feeling desperate. I tried drastic diets aimed at restricting my calorie intake, which inevitably lead to binge eating, and to even more serious health problems.
I hit rock bottom in 2010 and decided to get healthy. My life today is beyond what I ever dreamed of. I have not only lost weight, but I’m also full of energy. I’m healthy and happy. And what makes me most fulfilled is sharing my knowledge with others and seeing other people end their struggles and get amazing results.
Therefore, I’d like to share the insights that have made the biggest impact on my journey to health:
1. I dropped the idea that I had to deprive myself.
Everything started out so well.
You had this marvelous idea; your motivation was sky high.
You were full of passion; taking action was fun and easy.
But suddenly your good fortune turned sour!
Everything seemed to go wrong, nothing went as planned and your drive and motivation started fading away.
What happened? Where has all your energy and passion gone? Everything looked so easy, fun and straightforward at the beginning. Now, nothing seems to be working out.
Don’t worry, things are not as bad as they may look like…
On your way to success, things almost never turn out exactly as planned. Sometimes, you need to be ready to adapt your plans to your current circumstances. It may even be required to slightly change your direction every now and then.
In other words, you always need to remain flexible. When one way is blocked, most probably there is a different way that leads to your destination.
However, if you close your eyes and fight, struggle and push to continue on the planned route you will waste time and energy and you may never reach your goal.
Here are five simple steps that will allow you to get back on the road to success when everything seems to be falling apart:
1. Have a crystal clear vision of your goal.
Always keep the mental image of your goal in your mind. Constantly think about your goal. Feel as if it is already part of your reality.
By all means, this should not be some sort of daily “must do” exercise. Play with it and have fun. Imagine yourself having already realized your goal – this should be exciting and it should feel tremendously good.
Every now and then, your mind may tell you: “Come on, this doesn’t work, forget about it…” Dismiss those negative thoughts and put your focus back on those thoughts and visual images that correspond with the reality you would like to experience.
What you focus on long enough and with sufficient intensity becomes your reality!
2. You still need a plan.
You need to come up with some ideas on how to proceed. Of course, your initial plan will not be perfect and many of the details will change over time.
A plan provides you with a structure and it tells you what to do in order to get from where you are to where you want to go.
If you don’t know how to get started, do some research on the internet, read some books, check out autobiographies of people who already did what you would like to achieve.
This doesn’t need to be complicated. Just a few starting points. Once you start taking action, you will get new ideas, your knowledge will grow, you will meet new people… and your plan will become more and more refined.
Incredible story. Read it here: http://www.dietsinreview.com/diet_column/11/ramani-durvasula-lost-81-pounds-when-she-jumped-to-the-dirty-plate-club/
This week marks the start of the annual eat-too-much and move-too-little holiday season, with its attendant declining health and surging regrets. But a well-timed new study suggests that a daily bout of exercise should erase or lessen many of the injurious effects, even if you otherwise lounge all day on the couch and load up on pie.
To undertake this valuable experiment, which was published online in The Journal of Physiology, scientists at the University of Bath in England rounded up a group of 26 healthy young men. All exercised regularly. None were obese. Baseline health assessments, including biopsies of fat tissue, confirmed that each had normal metabolisms and blood sugar control, with no symptoms of incipient diabetes.
The scientists then asked their volunteers to impair their laudable health by doing a lot of sitting and gorging themselves.
Energy surplus is the technical name for those occasions when people consume more energy, in the form of calories, than they burn. If unchecked, energy surplus contributes, as we all know, to a variety of poor health outcomes, including insulin resistance — often the first step toward diabetes — and other metabolic problems.
Overeating and inactivity can each, on its own, produce an energy surplus. Together, their ill effects are exacerbated, often in a very short period of time. Earlier studies have found that even a few days of inactivity and overeating spark detrimental changes in previously healthy bodies.
Some of these experiments have also concluded that exercise blunts the ill effects of these behaviors, in large part, it has been assumed, by reducing the energy surplus. It burns some of the excess calories. But a few scientists have suspected that exercise might do more; it might have physiological effects that extend beyond just incinerating surplus energy.
To test that possibility, of course, it would be necessary to maintain an energy surplus, even with exercise. So that is what the University of Bath researchers decided to do.
Their method was simple. They randomly divided their volunteers into two groups, one of which was assigned to run every day at a moderately intense pace on a treadmill for 45 minutes. The other group did not exercise.